We were out with my mum for a walk and to go for tea and she was so anxious I ended up questioning my decisions as a parent. I have a 5 year old ds and an 18 month old dd, so one on a scooter and other one in buggy but my mum was so anxious about one on scooter. I let him scoot just ahead of me with me watching out the whole time for unsafe situations. He knows to stop at the road and to go slow down hill and it's a walk we've done thousands of times before but my mum was freaking out because he was on the pavement and she thinks this something that should just happen in the park. He has never bumped into anyone and always listens to me. Then I got dd out of the buggy when we were at the park and my mum started saying she couldn't cope anymore because her 'nerves were shattered'. The toddler was toddling along pottering in and out of puddles, sometimes putting his hands in puddles and stroking willing dogs and ds was on scooter having fun, but for my mum this combination of free-range kids was nerve-wracking. As if all this wasn't enough we went to a cafe and the kids moved in and out of their seats and dropped biscuits and youngest lunged for hot cups etc but to me this is all normal with young kids. We were away from other people in the cafe and the kids weren't crying or screaming or running around. Is she over anxious or am I overly liberal?
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monkeynuts123 · 11/02/2014 18:22
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