Dd1 is 9 and is about to go abroad with my aunt and uncle for a week in Spain during the Easter holidays.
My aunt and uncle are really close to dd1 and often have her for a weekend as and when they are able to
They've been talking about taking her abroad for a few years but wanted to wait for dd1 to feel able to spend a week away from home and also to be able to cope with the flight etc.
Dds dad has her for 6 hours eow, no overnights and if access is misses for any reason I always give him a list of dates so they can go less than a month without seeing each other but this is never taken up.
As I'm sitting out dds passport and letters for my aunt to take her away, I've had to get dds dads passport number. Its like getting blood from a fucking stone tbh. Its taken 5phone calls from my aunt, around 3/4 from me and 2 emails over the last month.
When he has finally given me the dearils , hes also chucked into the mix that he thinks she's too young
He's known about this holiday for 3 months now, I've included him in the process, he knows how excited dd is about it. He knows it means she gets to meet a family member that she's only spoken to on Skype and he has paid for lessons so she can learn the language of the country sheis going to.
Argh!!
Aibu to think that if I think she's old enough to go then I know my own child enough to know that she will be fine, that she is with people I trust with her and that she will be fine without me for 8 days??
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to think dd1s dad is wrong on this one?
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mouseymummy · 10/02/2014 22:19
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