I am a single mum to a (nearly) 4 year old but I live with my parents so I never get to have any real time with her by myself and my mum really interferes but as she provides a lot of free childcare for me I find it hard to criticise her for this but its like sometimes she forgets that she is my daughter and not hers. The other side of this is my sister, she hates to be on her own for any length of time, she has her own house but comes to ours every night until at least 8pm and is with us all weekend (unless she gets a better offer) again she helps entertain my little one when I have jobs to do but sometimes I just want to take her to the cinema or for a walk just the two of us but then it starts with 'let your sister come' 'why don't we all go'. I even got holiday vouchers for Christmas for Butlins and within half an hour it was decided we all go which I know my daughter will love I just feel that I am missing out on our time together. Yesterday I promised my daughter I would take her to the new lego film and an hour later without asking me my sister told her she would take her and has mentioned it again today!!! sorry for rambling I'm just frustrated and been made to feel mean for taking my own child out for the day by ourselves. Oh yes I forgot to mention my sister is 33 so not a child!
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jopickles · 10/02/2014 15:30
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