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Short story:
my other half just came back from a short trip with his parents. During this trip (on monday) his dad came down with a nasty vomiting bug. This morning my OH came down with it too, though he doesn't seem to have it so badly. He is still at the tablespoons of water/no food stage. We don't live together so I haven't seen him since he caught the bug.
Now the dilemma. We are supposed to be going on a group ski trip tomorrow, staying in a cabin with 8 other people (and one bathroom!). Everyone is a bit jittery about potentially getting the bug, as they're so contagious it's hard to completely remove the risk (esp if same bathroom) and we only have 4 days abroad and don't want to lose some of them in a pukefest.
My boyfriend called the doctor, who thought it was probably relatively minor and if he had no symptoms tomorrow he'd be ok. (I'm a little sceptical that a) this will be the case b) he'd not be contagious even so)
We could potentially cancel and be covered by insurance, boyfriend wouldn't have to pay excess on his travel insurance, I would have to pay 100. But I still want to go! If I cancelled my bf would probably feel terribly bad and organise another holiday (though the one we have got is an unusual one which would be hard to replicate - Norway)
What should I do? Would it be awful to tell him he shouldn't come if he still has residual symptoms tomorrow? Should I be telling him that anyway?? Should I just cancel and suck up the 100 and the loss of the holiday? It's stressing me out quite a bit and I'd worry about spending the whole holiday obsessively cleaning / watching people for signs of illness...
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nosickplease · 05/02/2014 17:50
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