I will try to summarise as much as possible as it's long so sorry if I miss anything out.
I had a friend who I had known since school, she bullied me for a while in school the we became friends towards the end of our time there. I cut her off over two years ago as she had become what I can only describe as toxic.
She lied about having cancer, and about being raped (which she knew had happened to me). She would constantly put me down about my weight and would make awful remarks about overweight people (ie we'd be out at a club and she'd say 'look at that fat fucker') it turned out she had an eating disorder which she wouldn't admit when I tried to talk to her about it and express my concern.
She encouraged a man to have sex with me when I was incoherently drunk. She was kicked out of every home she stayed in and always had a story as to why it wasn't her fault. She slept with our close friends boyfriend as well as another friends ex and got irate when I told her I didn't agree with her actions. She was quite clearly racist, more in a 'I'm not racist but...' Way.
I could probably go on but I'm sure you all get the drift. Despite all that we would have a lot of laughs and spend a lot of time together, but I now realise how controlling she was of me. I'd feel guilt if I spent time with another friend.
Since we stopped speaking I have had a son. He is mixed race. I heard from a mutual acquaintance she has been saying racist remarks about him to people.
I expected her to spout stuff about me to everyone when I stopped talking to her because that's what she's like. But knowing she has been saying stuff about my son gives me the absolute rage and I can only see red right now. WIBU to contact her and tell her exactly what I think of her?
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MrsDrRanj · 04/02/2014 10:34
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