I'm making a claim about something that happened many years ago. It's not a legal matter but a work disciplinary matter (albeit a very serious one).
Due to the passage of time I have zero evidence to support my claim. My main hope was to just get the claim registered on the file of the perpetrator, as a) I hope there may be prior claims that mine would then corroborate and b) In case of future claims, that can then corroborate mine.
However, in the process of making this claim (which the perpetrator of the serious misdemeanour does not know about yet) I have wondered if I should try to get some evidence. To do this, I would contact the person (whom I have not had contact with for a long time but has no idea I'm making a claim or that I ever even thought anything bad about his actions) and make out that I am just getting in touch in a friendly way, in the hope that they say something incriminating in their return correspondence.
Is this unreasonable/wrong of me, and is it even admissible in a work disciplinary situation, if someone has admitted to their wrongdoing on an e-mail?
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SnowAway · 31/01/2014 21:19
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