My partner and I can work 10 hour days, We can both be tired, stressed, sore, and overworked by the end of the day. I like to set aside everything and be intimate with her. Unfortunately, she doesn't have the same ideas. She's too tired, or too sore, or just "not in the mood." We are looking to be married in the near future, but i am finding this a strain. We are in our late 30's. We should still have a decent sexual drive. It's frustrating to me that she isn't on the same page as me when it comes to sex.
It's my main argument in our relationship. I can't understand how six or seven days wait weeks can go by, and sex just never happens. No woman wants to always take the initiative all the time but come on just once would be nice... If I didn't speak up, I'm sure a year could just pass by without any intimacy at all. I would be happiest with intimate contact every day of the week, but I've tried to compromise to every other day. But even that doesn't occur without a reminder. Too which even I am getting fed up with getting knocked back.
It is getting to the point where I am flirting with other people. This isn't a good sign. I know that. I love her. I do but what can be down now? It has got to a position where I'm not bothering until she does, so we are not.
Yes this sounds strange, and I bet a lot of you think well it must be you, you must be an arse! But I mean it it has been months since we have done anything. I don't want to break up, but it's like we're friends rather then lovers.
Say what you wish too but would really like some advice.
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ahabswhale · 29/01/2014 21:18
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