I doubt this is the right place but atm I'm just not feeling loved and maybe I'm being unreasonable..
the beginning of this month me and do were having a serious conversation and he made it fully clear he doesn't 'love me like he use to' 'the spark had gone' he admitted to being lazy (never cooks as 'doesn't know how' (even emptying a can Into a saucepan). We both said we'd try more he'd try to learn how to cook and I'd stop being 'stressy'.
Since then he said he still doesn't love me like he use to, he will say he loves me when he's here otherwise he doesn't.
Yesterday he went 4 hours without texting because he said "I could of told him how my LO was, what I'd been doing, how I was and what I had planned for the rest of the day" yet when I did that today he told me there was no point in h replying because I told him everything 
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He even said yesterday "isn't it ironic how you can't even make me erect anymore when I'm so touch sensitive" 
we use to have sex 3 times a day and we may have it 2/3 times a week if he's not to tired, busy, not in the mood, his tv programme is on etc.
Now I'm lying on the sofa because he's snoring, grinding his teeth and rolling in to me continuously in his sleep and I've had enough I just feeling like he's with me because it's easier and it's nice to have someone and he doesn't really love me anymore despite saying it. I however am madly in love with him
I'm nearly 21 and he's nearly 24 we've only been together 6 months
AIBU?
To still be with him?
RalphLaurenLover · 22/01/2014 02:11
No we don't, he'll come over every other day or so and stay.
I was a single mum before hand and my past relationships never lasted more than 3 weeks he's my first serious one.
I love everything about him the way we talk, the way when he leaves for work at 7 he'll be super quiet to try not to wake me and kiss me on the head before he goes.
It's just ever since he said that I can't get it out of my mind iyswim?
Ironic? What a absolute twat.
Get him out as soon as possible and start getting over him.
You sound like someone who can fall in love quite easily. That doesn't have to be a bad thing but you can save that love for someone who makes you feel amazing and who deserves your love.
The things you have listed: him going out quietly, giving you a kiss before he goes. That it is just basic stuff that you will get in any relationship. You should be getting a lot more than that, without the cruel remarks, especially only six months in 
I can't get a babysitter if I leave my LO he'll cry till he's physically sick, scream everything. The only person he doesn't do that with is my sister who's getting married next month and is ttc and my mum who isn't really a choice anymore because she'll ditch Him for her no bf.
He did come in say he felt bad then went back to bed and resumed with his snoring.
I guess I know we're not going anywhere he's said he "can't move In in the future till I get a bigger house" because he NEEDS a man room and his own space", yet when I say since id be getting the bigger house it would be my LO's play room he's adamant it wouldn't be.
Mostly because his best mate has a 'man room' and they're naively thinking when his LO gets here that it will still be a man room that the LO will never set foot in and they're friends will be in it every Friday drinking beer. I've tried to explain it won't but he doesn't believe me because there is two of them unlike me.
Idk
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