I’m expecting DC2 in about a months time and while I’m getting excited about meeting the new baby I’m also a little (a lot) daunted by it. I found having DC1 very challenging – difficult birth with c-section and baby in SCBU, very demanding clingy baby, and stressed out mummy. This is all coming back to me now.
My DC1 is now 2.4 months and lovely little thing, my DH while great is away 3 to 4 nights a week so I’ll have to manage a fair bit on my own.
I’d love to know what was the best advice you were given, or the best strategies you developed for going from 1 to 2. I’m thinking things like :
how to you keep DC1 happy while you are breast feeding/feeding – especially when it takes so long at the beginning?
how do you bath and put two children to bed at the same time?
how do you stop DC1 getting jealous and split your time fairly between a demanding toddler and a new born?
These probably sound like silly questions to people with 2 (or more DC) and I’m sure I’ll just muddle through, but I’d really like to have a few techniques/strategies up my sleeve for the early days. What advice would you give?
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BB2000 · 21/01/2014 21:44
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