I work one job Monday to Friday (part time hours but with a lot of overtime) and one job on a weekend (6 hours a week but been there 3 years and used to be full time). I've had a lot of ill health recently - slipped discs back in October which meant I had 4 weeks off, then had a fall and a brain haemorrhage on NYE and have only just this week started driving again. Doc has signed me off from the weekend job until next weekend, but I have been doing a few hours at the other job as this isn't strenuous in the slightest and I can rest when I need to.
Weekend job is awful; I absolutely hate the bloody place. They expect way too much from us, treat us like shit at the best of times and the atmosphere in there is just bitchy and horrible. When I went back after my back problem, they were unsympathetic, wouldn't let me have a break when I needed it, and the manager hinted that he thought I'd been winging it (really wasn't; couldn't even walk to school, 300 yards away, for the first week!).
Whilst I was in hospital, my friend rang my weekend manager and left a message explaining what had happened. She recieved a text back saying "Thanks..." Not one person has rang/texted/messaged me to see how I am and if I'm ok, apart from one bloke who lives near me and who I count as a friend. I've sent my medical certificate in with him and I'm due to go back this weekend. I'm having major panic attacks at the thought of setting foot back in there, let alone on one of the busiest days of the week. Since my head injury, I've felt anxious and low, which I know is a side effect of the concussion, but I don't feel I can face standing in a busy shop in a job which is incredibly full on. I'm not sure what to do; I'm literally losing sleep about it.
It's only 6 hours and, at a push, I could probably manage without the money, as I have a 20 mile round trip to get there anyway, by the time I've dropped ds off at my dad's, but it would be a struggle. I'm talking to my other employer about upping my hours, and I've applied for 15 part time jobs in the last week, so hoping I can get something to cover it. I just can't go back, but I can't decide whether to just hand my notice in, or whether to ask the doc, when I see her tomorrow, for a note for another week, as I genuinely don't feel up to spending that long on my feet, and I'm very likely to make mistakes which I know I'll be given no leeway for.
Sorry for the essay, I'm worrying myself sick. I feel crappy, I've still got a headache, I'm knackered but not sleeping and I'm as depressed as hell :(
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JulietBravoJuliet · 20/01/2014 22:23
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