So mine and DH best friends are getting married later in the year. Both want to go abroad for their sending off. We have a DS 13 months old and going abroad without each other is not appealing but we're willing to go if that is what they choose.
However DH got offered a new job which he is currently awaiting negotiation of salary and benefits package. This job could potentially be the start of an amazing employed career as he is currently self employed, therefore he told friend that he could not book this week whilst still awaiting news of new job. Btw friend txt him on mon am saying that he was booking at 11am that day and DH would need to send 150 deposit (flights and sc hotel is costing £363!)
Friend has now txt DH "cant believe my best man ain't coming, i feel really let down."
DH txt back explains about potential career etc and hasn't heard anything since.
I then get txt from my friend...looking to book hen do in next week or so, will you be coming?
I txt back to say that I'll be hoping to but still recouping from DS 1st bday and xmas so money is tight for deposit etc. no txt back.
The silly thing is that it is causing arguements between me and DH as neither wants to go really and so neither wants the other to go if one of us isnt..
Oh also they are getting married some 6hr drive away so we also have to book holiday and pay out to stay away for that.
We were hoping to have a family holiday but think that is out of the question now and i cant seem to stop taking my frustration out on DH.
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Peanutbutternutter419 · 13/01/2014 19:17
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