Disclaimer - i love him really, but i am mighty pissed off
So DD has had lots of lovely christmas presents - too many really, especially as she decided she absolutely must hve a furby at the last minute and we were able to get one with club card points. She also got skylander swap force and other things. I honestly think she had way too much and she has presents that she hasn't even looked at. Thats the background.
DP announced last week that disney infinity was on sale - that he wanted to buy it with money that he got for christmas. Fine, his money, but i felt a bit guilty so i gave him £20 of mine - so half each. He comes home wiht disney infinity plus two characters at £10 each - so thats £60, less than a month after christmas.
Today we go shopping and DD asks for a further character - i said no. We can't afford all of this spend, we have had to fork out for a new tyre for the car, we need to replace two fence panels and life is expensive. OK so DP's work is going well, but we aren't well off enough for these things.
More importantly, he buys DD whatever she wants - she only has to flutter her eye lashes and do the little princess look and she has what she wants. This is not the message i want her to have - she doesn't appreciate anything because she never wants for anything, never has to wait for anything or save her pocket money for things. So its not a big deal to her - to me, disney infinity is major present material, so birthday or xmas - i wanted him to buy it and put it away for her birthday but no, he couldnt wait - to be fair, he plays it too. She hadn't even asked for it FFS.
Yes it was lovely when he hid it in the hall and asked DD to go fetch the shopping bag he forgot, and i heard her going up the stairs singing "i'm such a happy happy girl"
He is a twat isn't it?
or am i a miserable old grinch?
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LEMoncehadacatcalledSANTA · 12/01/2014 17:24
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