My mother in law and father in law visited at the weekend for a couple of painful and stressy days, she sniped at me all the time and was quite rude, Playing on my very real fears about drowning/snakes etc, I smiled and put on a brave face. Despite wanting to run to my bedroom and do the wrapping - I couldn't they were sleeping there and it was their "privacy" :(
I have been wrapping main presents all week as who wants to rush on Christmas Eve? His Lordship could not be bothered to help me once, Not that I cared, I was happy doing it whilst watching TV.
Today my mum visits, My eldest hates the present she bought (the only one my mum picked) and was rude about it. "oh well that's what you get when you dont listen" my husband mutters :o
So to stop things getting worse I took my mum out without the kids (especially the horrid one who did want to come!) We get back after a bloody nice 3 hours, Hubby has spent the entire time upstairs wrapping the stocking presents :o Something we usually do together.
My mum is here for another 4 or so hours and he stays upstairs. I make dinner and he comes down to eat it and leaves right away. refusing the drink she made him, and not letting us has trifle (he doesn't want her to have it) despite it going out of date today!!! Finally after My mum leaves I go upstairs to help him wrap, he wont let me and refuses to allow me too! I Try and find the Christmas pyjamas, but miss a pair.. Ask him to help and he refuses and blames me, , but I say he is ruining our Christmas, to which i get called a bitch, probably deserve it to be fair.
I am so supremley upset, He ignored my mother, he wont let me put our kids to bed (7 and 9) He has already filled their stocking and wont let me let the kids hang them up!! AND HE USED THE SAME F*ING WRAPPING PAPER FOR FATHER CHRISTMAS AS THE MAIN PRESENTS!!!!
I honestly feel like I hate him, and I could just sit here and cry.
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Hetupandcross · 24/12/2013 20:21
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