My DD had her 2nd birthday yesterday. DH and I took her out for the morning with DS and MIL, wanting to mark the day even although she's too young for parties etc.
I have a brother and sister - we get on well and stay in regular contact through email and phone even although we live hundreds of miles apart. However, neither of them sent a card, phoned, or emailed marking the fact that it was my DD's birthday. The most I have had is a 2-minute phone call from sister this morning apologising, saying that she had forgotten (although she knew which date it was).
I sent a photo to them last night of DD in a new outfit, but DB had clearly forgotten as his reply didn't mention her birthday.
The thing is, I have gone to loads of effort for my sister's DS's two birthdays; travelled hundreds of miles with my own kids, paid for big days out, presents and cards. I've tried to be a good Aunt by babysitting for long weekend, whilst also looking after my own kids.
My brother doesn't have kids and is never great with birthdays, but my sister also forgot my DS's birthday last month and avoided any contact with me for two weeks.
My DM sent a card but hasn't phoned, and DSIL said she would come round, but didn't bother, saying she'd pass on the present to my MIL.
AIBU at being miffed that our siblings haven't bothered about this?
I never used to attach much importance to birthdays, but it has been different since I've had kids, and I always make an effort with family birthdays....
Or maybe I should just accept that it's not really important! AIBU?
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To expect my siblings to acknowledge DD's birthday?
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minniemouse123 · 16/12/2013 14:06
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