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AIBU to be even more annoyed at the benefit system?

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RoseRedder Sat 07-Dec-13 21:55:18

I'm not really sure what I want to say about this or how to put it

But my friend has been found dead. Details are at the moment a bit confused and nothing confirmed but it's pointing to suicide

I hadn't had contact with him for about six months then when he asked for help I obviously didn't do enough

about my friend

I found out at 8pm, I'm still taking it in to be honest.

This country stinks to high hell

IneedAwittierNickname Sat 07-Dec-13 21:56:51

Sorry to hear about your friend. thanks

Darkesteyes Sat 07-Dec-13 21:57:17

Christ Rose. I was following that thread. Im so so so sorry. My condolences to you. JESUS im sorry thanks thanks thanks

Vampyreof Sat 07-Dec-13 21:58:00

How awful - sorry.

gordyslovesheep Sat 07-Dec-13 21:58:45

oh Rose I'm so sorry thanks x the system is dehumanising and shitty x

Sammie101 Sat 07-Dec-13 21:58:49

I read your first thread, I'm so so sorry about your friend hmm hugs!

elliegoulding Sat 07-Dec-13 21:58:50

Oh no, I'm really sorry to hear about your friend, you must be reeling sad

GobbySadcase Sat 07-Dec-13 21:59:55

Once again the DWP and ATOS have blood on their hands. 11,000 so far in the ESA/WCA scheme.

I'm so sorry for your loss x

BohemianGirl Sat 07-Dec-13 22:00:28

I dont know what to say, but i dont want to pass this thread by as you are clearly needing to talk about this. I can listen.

Darkesteyes Sat 07-Dec-13 22:01:50

11,000 people dead. Talk about not learning from history.

moldingsunbeams Sat 07-Dec-13 22:01:59

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kilmuir Sat 07-Dec-13 22:02:29

why is benefit system to blame?

squeakytoy Sat 07-Dec-13 22:02:38

"I hadn't had contact with him for about six months then when he asked for help I obviously didn't do enough"

Please please do not blame yourself.. it is not your fault. Honestly.

My FIL took his own life and it is absolutely horrific. xx

RoseRedder Sat 07-Dec-13 22:02:58

thanks don't feel sorry for me though, I'm ok.

I didn't know whether to post or not but I got so much good advice it feels sort of wrong to not say what's happened.

I'm just a bit wtf at the moment, it feels a bit surreal really

moldingsunbeams Sat 07-Dec-13 22:03:59

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ShylaMcClaus Sat 07-Dec-13 22:04:41

Oh Rose, I am so sorry thanks

How does IDS sleep at night?

GobbySadcase Sat 07-Dec-13 22:04:46

Hmm kilmuir. I have nooooo idea.
I'm sure having no money to live on whilst being so unwell he was unable to work made him JOYFUL.

moldingsunbeams Sat 07-Dec-13 22:05:38

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GobbySadcase Sat 07-Dec-13 22:06:26

once source from a quick google

candycoatedwaterdrops Sat 07-Dec-13 22:06:54

Holy shit. sad

I am so sorry for your loss. flowers

RoseRedder Sat 07-Dec-13 22:07:49

He is 33

moldingsunbeams Sat 07-Dec-13 22:08:25

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GobbySadcase Sat 07-Dec-13 22:09:13

another one

moldingsunbeams Sat 07-Dec-13 22:09:30

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lemontruffles Sat 07-Dec-13 22:11:02

This is so sad.

Please do not blame yourself. You are absolutely not responsible for this tragedy.

So sad that too many people feel dehumanized and bereft under this government; this is appalling. Your poor friend.

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