My sister and I had a major falling out many years ago and in the past few years we managed to patch it up but she never apologised about some hideous things that she did. Anyway, a year after patching up we had another big row and I decided that I couldn't keep trying with her. So now we seem to have come to a mutual understanding without anyone saying anything that we will tolerate each other at family 'dos' but not see each other outside this, and for me that works, just about. I have a ds and a dd and she has always favoured my dd over my ds, and basically has never really made an effort to make a relationship with him. The other day I saw her at said sort of family event and my ds was rolling about on the floor playing near her while she was sitting in a chair, he rolled around and ended up with his head next to her foot where he laid for a while looking at a toy. She sat in the chair literally looking down her nose at him with a look of sort of disgust/detachment and she never reached down to him to play or communicate even though his head was almost on her foot. I mean, he is her nephew! It made my blood run cold and surely this level of weirdness is too much for anyone to have to put up with? Btw she has grown up kids and I doted on hers when they were small.
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To think my sisters weirdness has gone too far?
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monkeynuts123 · 07/12/2013 19:36
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