DH works 4 days a week in a very undemanding / low stress job. I'm currently on mat leave with DS (9mths), we also have DD (14yrs). Household responsibilities are pretty fairly split in general, DH maybe does a little more housework than me but I tend to do more bits and pieces (shopping, managing finances, school stuff, arranging holidays etc.) so I think it balances out.
The issue is, DH works from 12pm -10:30pm and in his opinion should get to stay in bed until the last possible minute before he needs to set off (so gets up around 11:30am) because he has to work and then on days when he doesn't work thinks he should get a lie in because it's his day off .
I think that the time he's actually at work, DS is totally my job but the time he's at home it should be 50/50 including him doing 50% of mornings even if he does have to go to work later on that day.
DS is usually asleep before DH gets home so he does no childcare then and I'm usually asleep not long after. I also do all night time childcare, though that's getting less at last! DH tends to stay up, watching stuff or playing computer games until 1-2am. Staying up later / getting up later isn't an option for me and DS due needing to get DD up for school (she has an alarm clock but isn't terribly reliable even so) and we sometimes go to baby group in the mornings.
So, who's being unreasonable? Me or DH or somewhere in the middle?
(sorry it's so long, I have an unfortunate tendency to ramble)
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MandatoryMongoose · 01/12/2013 21:17
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