This may be long and poss petty and I possibly ABU. But this is bugging me and I need to spill/vent/share.
OH in the forces so he lives away on the base most of the time but calls my house I share with my 3 DC his home. Which is great/fine.
I have ALWAYS been precious of my space (in the house) since I had kids. Always put kiddy things/toys away at night from the lounge or wherever I am chilling out and never had the kids stuff/photos of them in my bedroom.
My 3 DC each have their own room. They go to their dads every other weekend. We have 2 of OHs DC on the weekends we also have my DC meaning DS2 has to share with DS1 in the attic giving OH DC his room every weekend he is at home (this pisses him off but his room is the only suitable bedroom for them to go in for various reasons). It is not ideal but its really hard to juggle these things. I drew the line when OH suggested his DC should have a say in redecorating DS2 bedroom (they each have their own rooms at home).
We had our fitted wardrobes last yr at great expense and OH gave half his space to clothes we keep here for his DC (I love their mum but she is crap at packing - think 1 pair of pants between 2 of them for the entire weekend). So fine. This has now spread to wellies, onesies and bedding etc just being stacked in a corner in our room in the two weeks OH and his DC aren't here which is really really pissing me off. I never kept my own kids stuff in my bedroom never mind squeezing around kids stuff who don't actually live here.
I tried to tackle it with OH (can your DC wellies go in the garage with everyone else's?) but he flew off the handle. Saying its minging (erm yours mine and my kids wellies are out there?)
What do others do?
AIBU to not want a (nice new - first adult nice bedroom I have ever had) full of his DC stuff - and what do I do?
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Gossipmonster · 21/11/2013 20:24
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