I live abroad, a 2.5 hr flight from London where my family are. DP and I would like to finally tie the knot after a 4 year engagement and 1 child, and would like to do it next year before we get too old and decrepit and other stuff gets in the way (like hopefully a second DC...).
We've been talking about it for months and due to various issues (the summer heat where we live, DPs work schedule with family business which is very busy at certain times of year and involves his entire family) we can't get married between June - October. My side of the family will all have to fly here from the UK/US.
We were hoping to do it in May but I recently found out that my DB has got his new barely know her girlfriend pregnant and she's due in mid June. Obviously we can't expect her to fly a month or so before the due date so we're now thinking of a date a few days after Easter - last week of April. By my calculations she would be 32 weeks pregnant.
We could have it earlier, i.e. end of March, but that leaves really very little time for planning. Plus, the weather won't be as good.
As for leaving it til the end of the year, I don't particularly want a winter wedding, and as we're going to try for DC2 I want to get the wedding out of the way first (of course life's never that simple though is it!)
My DB is ok about it but he's not the one carrying the baby I hardly know his girlfriend and don't want to piss her off. She's very young (20) and healthy and so far no problems with the pregnancy.
I flew the same distance when 28 wks pregnant and had no trouble.
So what do you reckon, AIBU to schedule the wedding when she'll be about 32 weeks pregnant?
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susannahscoffs · 14/11/2013 14:08
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