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To be upset that nobody cares

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Tulip26 · 06/11/2013 22:18

Having a moan, need a hug. Had a hospital visit today, alone and scared. Not one person in my life has bothered to ask how it went.

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Squidwardtenticles · 06/11/2013 22:19

How did it go?

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CocacolaMum · 06/11/2013 22:21

why did you have to go to the hospital?

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CookieLady · 06/11/2013 22:21

Sending you a hug. How did it go?

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Tulip26 · 06/11/2013 22:23

I've been having chronic headaches for months. Doctor won't investigate further until hospital had given me an eye test. My eyes are fine (I knew this!) so back to doctor.

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pigletmania · 06/11/2013 22:25

Giving you big hugs Flowers and Brew. Hope you find out what's causing it

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Anjou · 06/11/2013 22:26

Family & friends have a horrible way of sometimes ALL being too busy to get in touch sometimes. I'm sure they'd feel terrible if they realised you felt so bad and that no one had been in touch with you. I bet if you reach out with a brief text to all, lots of people will get back to you, apologising they didn't get in touch sooner and wondering how you are.

Hope you're ok.

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CocacolaMum · 06/11/2013 22:26

well at least you can tick it off as something that's been checked out. You aren't alone in this, I hope they find out whats causing them x

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Tulip26 · 06/11/2013 22:26

Thanks. OH hasn't even bothered to get in touch. Had these headaches non stop since early July. Think it may be my depo causing it?

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Bettercallsaul1 · 06/11/2013 22:54

Very sorry to hear about your chronic headaches, Tulip26. It is good, though, that they are being investigated so something can be done to help you.

It is always scary when you don't know the cause of something, though, and, at times like this, you need the sympathy and support of your family and friends. It's my guess that your nearest and dearest just don't know how upset and alone you are feeling - perhaps you''ve been putting on a brave face? If so, drop it and tell everyone you need help - their moral support and their company. I bet they just don't know how you feel. Tell them, and I bet they come running!

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comewinewithmoi · 06/11/2013 22:57

Hugs how are you?

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kali110 · 07/11/2013 00:46

Know how you feel. Had to see slecialist about mine and inly one person bothered to see how i was!
I hah headaches when i was on the depo too

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kali110 · 07/11/2013 00:47

Specialist, only, *had wow so many typos, may be bed time!

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MrsTerryPratchett · 07/11/2013 05:20

I got hormone migraines after pregnancy so I imagine your depo could cause them.

Are you the family 'carer'?

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