Okay I have a rather fraught relationship with my mother so am prepared to be told I'm being unreasonable.
My DS has just come down with chickenpox. As it happens, my parents are visiting. I asked them what I looked like when I had it, and my stepfather says, Oh you never had chickenpox, you had measles.
Well, this was news to me! My mother has always regaled me with stories about how awful I looked when I had chickenpox, how the family called me Spot, etc.
Now she says, oh right, it was measles. She 'can't remember' if I also had chickenpox.
AIBU or is this total bullshit? My reasons for being angry are:
- I took no precautions re CP when I was pregnant because I thought I'd already had it.
- I spend a lot of time with the ILs which includes tiny babies and now a pregnant SIL -- now that I know I might get it from my son, I won't go near them, but I would have seen them this week otherwise and could have been infectious.
- I could have got the vaccine myself years ago, or gotten one for DS. Now I just have to wait and see if I get it too in the next week.
I know normally chickenpox is no big deal, I'm not freaking out or anything, but it can indeed be serious sometimes and I'm just so angry that my mum has never mentioned anything or thought about it. She does know the risks because now she's super worried about DS, so I don't know what her deal is.
AIBU to be angry?