back story My mum has a brain tumour, it's a 'roaming' one that's on like a stalk thing meaning it can press on different parts of her brain. Some days she's okay(meaning feeling crap but able to function), other days she's terrible, throwing up, collapsing and can't move. She was in hospital not long ago because on a bad day she had a seizure. Now because it's an 'on/off' thing she has had trouble getting any financial help, she started getting some DLA but then it was stopped. So since then we have supported her.
A couple of months ago my mum received a letter in the post from a woman who works for the council, saying my mum will be getting a fine because she has left her bin out. Now by out she means - not in the street- but right at the back of my mums back garden door (terraced houses). Not causing any blockage or problem at all. This happened on one of her bad days. I emailed the council and explained this to them, to which they basically said it's no excuse and she should have means in place for these circumstance - because we all had maids and the like don't we
I offered to pay the fine just to get it out of the way, but mum said she would sort it. Fast forward a few weeks and now mum has got a court summons. It lists a few dates where apparently my mum left her bin at the back of her garden door, which this council woman has recorded because it seems like she's been habitually stalking my mums back garden. Also she's complaining about my mum not recycling - which she can't as the recycling bin was stolen (yes bloody stolen) and we've requested for a replacement 6 times but had none.
AIBU to be absolutely furious? And could I ask for some advice on how to handle this situation? My mum is only 40, she should be having fun and living her life but it's ruined by this bloody tumour and now this has got her worried.
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Strumpetron · 27/10/2013 15:45
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