My 14-y-o has a poor relationship with her father. He was physically, mentally and emotionally abusive to me, and has been mentally and emotionally abusive to both my daughters. Despite a court order granting him access, neither child has spent more than 1 night with him in the last few months. However, my daughter told me she was going to spend the night there last Sunday night to get her birthday presents (2 weeks after her birthday) and is still there 6 nights on. She is aloof on the phone, ignores my texts, acts as if I don't exist when she appears to get more clothes. She has missed 2 days of school in the last week. The school are supportive, but have had no idea from her of her plans either. She treats this like a big game and has told me she might come home, she might not. There is no use trying to speak to her father. He is not a rational human being. She has lost a baby sitting job for not turning up and is missing dance rehearsal. I don't understand what she's doing. I just want to know when she's coming home :-(
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NessaB82 · 26/10/2013 15:13
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