I know I am probably being unreasonable and irrational so I am hoping you will all kick me up the arse
My mum came round for my birthday and she has bought me a 6 month gym membership.
This has really upset me, my mum has always been obsessed with my weight when I was a teenager she used to say things such as "you have put on weight" "you aren't fit so what is the point" " when I was your age I was so much smaller than you" and it made me really self-conscious and if anything it just made it worse because I used to eat to either make myself feel better or because I didn't see the point anymore.
Plus she knows that going to the gym is the last thing I would enjoy I hated sports growing up and I am pretty rubbish at anything physical I walk the dog and take my DCs out but structured stuff isn't my thing.
I feel like she is again making another passive aggressive comment about my weight and it has been on my mind all day.
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teaand5biscuits · 20/10/2013 18:27
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