Oh blimey, this is a bit of a tale.. but I could really use some outside perspective. My friends say I'm NBU but when I tried to talk to my BF about it he made me feel like I was going crazy and it was all in my head... Help!
I live with my BF and a few weeks ago we went to the pub to meet some of his colleagues. I didn't know one of the girls and he said she was a new member of the team. I got a weird, flirty vibe between them and questioned him about it when we got home. He said they were just really good friends and she was here a few years ago on placement and so they've known each other for ages (..despite never mentioning her to me before, plus why introduce her as a new workmate and not a friend??)
Anyway, a week or so later, having spent the weekend at a friends in London I was on his laptop and found all their skype chats to one another. They had been having cosy little chats every morning before he went to work and they met up while I was in London. He told me they went for a run on the Sunday so I knew that but they also went for dinner early on the sat evening. Plus he was messaging her asking if she wanted to go for breakfast each day (she conveniently lives down our road). The nature of their chats was so flirty, not just, "shall we grab some food?", but "if you take me somewhere fancy I'll cancel all my plans for you". Plus I found their messages prior to her arriving and they were all saying how much they missed each other, how she would track him down once in the office (winky face) and he actually wrote that his life was barren without her around.
AIBU to think that this is out of line? I asked him what was up and he got so defensive saying they're good friends and I shouldn't be looking through his stuff etc... But this would never be tolerated from me...
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MsEBennet · 20/10/2013 17:39
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