We had no help until now, but with baby no 4 here, we have got a German au pair.
She is great in many ways, but rubs me up the wrong way quite a bit.
Case in point - she has been here four weeks and this weekend she is going up to London then taking a weeks holiday. She is asking to stay with my brother for three days, then she is bringing a friend back to stay here for five days ("it will be perfectly possible for her to stay in my room, I am sure she won't mind" she said, when I looked a bit surprised. I was so taken aback that I seem to have agreed. (Tbh I am a bit scared of her!).
I think it would be unreasonable of me to mind if she had been here longer, but she has only been around for a month!!
Nothing I can do now - but AIBU to feel a bit resentful?
I presume I am paying her for this week she is away...
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Thirstysomething · 03/10/2013 10:30
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