So as not to dripfeed in Reception my DD was weighed like all the other pupils in her class and I received a letter stating she was very obese.
I saw the school nurse and asked about what we could do. They chose to weigh her once a term until last summer when they decided she was gaining weight at a steady rate so it was ok.
However I tried to tell them that she seemed to eat everything. I mean EVERYTHING. Mouldy bread waiting to go outside to the bin. Sticks of butter, tubs of margarine, raw potato, uncooked pastry anything. She hides it too. It got so bad that we have had to buy a cable lock, like you'd use on a bike, to lock the fridge.
Right now to the point. ..after 2 years of nagging for help I got to see a paediatrician. He said she was fat because I fed her too much (told him all about her compulsive eating) but if I wanted he'd do some blood tests. He rang 2 weeks later explaining there was a genetic abnormality and that several specialists wanted to see her. We are due to see the geneticist today. We saw an endocrinologist last week. They have done no further tests on her. I realise they need to see her to asess her but they then go on to talk loudly about how big her tummy is, how she is generally obese etc. She said after the last appointment. Im too fat aren't I Mammy? I feel like they could get her to play elsewhere so we could talk without causing her unnecessary hang ups about food and appearance etcat 6 years old.
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TheLostWinchesterWife · 30/09/2013 13:09
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