Background - been divorced for 7/8 yrs.
Great relationship until he met new partner has been with her 5 yrs and she has 11 yr old DD (so she has a school uniform).
She has meddled and stirred over the yrs to the point that Ex H and I no longer speak and the kids hate her (solely because she is mean to them). They choose to go in spite if her to have a relationship with their dad. They are 14 and 16 so old enough to choose although sometimes I feel they are going into a borderline mental abuse situation .
He has always refused to wash the kids uniforms when he has them. He even stops off here at home so they can leave their uniform here for me to wash. I have asked a few times for him to wash them when I have been going away but the kids have always come back saying he's said the washing machine broken/they have done their mixed/white wash this week so the uniforms are still dirty. .
OH was here (we have 5 of our kids here every other weekend 2 DSDs who I would not dream of sending back to their mum with dirty clothes) when they stopped in on Friday and made them take their uniforms (it's 6 items of clothing) as we were going away.
They have returned saying their dad told them Friday night he didn't have time to do them although the kids watched him wash and iron her DDS uniform so now I have to send 2 teenagers to school tomorrow wearing jumpers they have worn for a week probably stinking and dirty on school photo day (they are woollen and new so don't want to risk tumble drying tonight and I could only afford to buy them 1 jumper each).
I just cannot understand why he needs to be such a dick and how she a mother herself could deliberately not wash her step children's clothes .
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AIBU to expect my ex to wash the kids uniforms on the w/es he has them?!
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Gossipmonster · 22/09/2013 21:13
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