Got a friend. Had her 20 years. Always been close. We've seen eachother through a lot of hard times ...... In recent times shes treated me like shit, really, has cancelled on me virtually every time we've had an arrangement. And a couple of years ago rented my house and totally trashed it....I had to get new carpet in etc. I didn't make a fuss as I was in quite bad ill health at the time and keeping stress out of my life was vital.
I've consistently been there for her and she for me but never in physical sense....she lives by text and can't be relied on to actually meet up. She let me down big time on Sunday and I had to go to a party totally on my own....
It's the final straw really, that and the lack of apology (constant theme)...
I was coming on here to ask should and how dump.....
And got a text asking me to be personal referee for her 20 yo son who I don't like because he totally ignores me. I mean, just blanks me, and has done since they were my tenants three years ago. It's not that I don't want to I any kid a favour but writing a statement for her son is nuts...he clearly doesn't even like me. Can I say no?
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PigOnStilts · 12/09/2013 21:50
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