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to think that a hca shouldnt tell me all assylum seekers should go home?

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 05/09/2013 21:47

In hospital. Hca brought me tea then proceeded to pick uup my newspaper and flick.through it. She said she wanted to see what it said about assylum seekers. Then said yes yes thats what I think they should all be sent home. The lot of them.

I just ignored her. I feel like shit and don't have the energy for an argument. I feel guilty now I didn't say anything.

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MammaTJ · 05/09/2013 21:49

Oh dear!! Not good! Shame you are not well enough for an arguement! Actually I don't give a shit about the arguement you are not well enough to have, how are you and why are you in hospital?

You would not have changed her opinions anyway!

So how long are you going to be there? What is going on with you?

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 05/09/2013 21:54

I can only speak a few words at a time, very breathless so my argument would have been crap. Think my ignoring her did give a good hint.

Had a terrible asthma attack today was in resus all afternoon. Scary.

Am better now and glad am on a nice ward with high nursing levels and phone signal.

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NettoSuperstar · 05/09/2013 22:00

Serves you right for bringing the DM in with you.

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 05/09/2013 22:06

Cow

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WorraLiberty · 05/09/2013 22:11

Why do you feel guilty for not arguing with her?

It's her opinion and she's entitled to it.

Yes it's a bigoted opinion but you having an argument with her, is very unlikely to change her opinion.

Just concentrate on getting well, and put the ignorant fuckwit out of your mind.

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MammaTJ · 05/09/2013 22:14

Aw, hope you get your proper breath back soon! It is proper fucking scary not being able to do that basic thing that everyone takes for granted!

Concentrate on that and fuck the ignorant HCA! Someone more well will educate her soon enough!

xxx

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AFishWithoutABicycle · 05/09/2013 22:15

This is why we need a 'did you mean to be that rude' badge. You could have just pointed to it.
Hope you feel better soon op. Thanks

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 05/09/2013 22:15

In the wonderful world of the NHS we're not allowed to voice our opinion. Hmm

I tell my workmates "I'm not racist, ageist , sexist whatever-ist. I hate everyone equally "

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 05/09/2013 22:16

Obviously I'm kidding about hating everyone Grin

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Misspixietrix · 05/09/2013 22:41

YDNBU. But I dont care about her misguided opinions. You're too poorly to waste your energy on someone whos opinion you wouldnt be able to change anyway :) My Dd is Poorly with her asthma tonight. Hope you are feeling better soon OP Flowers

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maras2 · 05/09/2013 22:56

Hope you feel better soon,Giraffes.Just ignore shit for brains and get well.

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WestieMamma · 05/09/2013 23:26

You could have unleashed a torrent of abuse and then blamed it on your meds. What a missed opportunity. Never mind, I hope you feel better soon Flowers

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HopeClearwater · 06/09/2013 00:12

What newspaper was it?

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 06/09/2013 00:18

Glasgow news or something. Was a free one. Headline was actually about how the "go home" posters are racist

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 06/09/2013 00:19

Misspixie did you used to be a different pixie? Hope ds better soon

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Misspixietrix · 06/09/2013 12:06

Giraffe no. I think there's a few on here with Pixie in the name. I just havent been on for a while but Im making up for it now Grin. Thanks shes been put on Steroids & AB's by the GP this morning. How are you doing this morning? ~

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propertyNIGHTmareBEFOREXMAS · 06/09/2013 12:11

Agree the hca has freedom of speech. As long as she stopped short of actually inciting hatred then she can express an opinion. I think you dealt with her well. Ignoring her was probably better than having an argument ent when you are unwell. Hope you are better and out of hospital soon.

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MrsDeVere · 06/09/2013 12:21

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ilovesooty · 06/09/2013 13:13

I would have thought that kind of comment expressed in the workplace would breach her employer's equality policy.

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WestieMamma · 06/09/2013 13:20

'Freedom of speech' is an American concept, there is no such thing in the UK.

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 06/09/2013 13:31

But I like my hospital dose of nha potatoes. Pasta and chips for lunch yum.

A student dr today told me I didn't look like the type of person to be ill with chest problems. And another hca told me I looked like I was young and fit so she would just disconect me from my monitors and I could walk totoilet...cue needing nebs and oxygen on my return. Perhaps cos I am wearing a tunic and leggings not a gown or pjs. I forgot wearing a dress made you unable to have lung problems Wink

I seem to invite these random comments.

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 06/09/2013 13:32

I disagree with her opinion however I respect her right to hold it...but she is in her uniform surely you can't say all asylum seekers should go home while wearing an nhs uniform? What if the lady behind the curtain was anasylum seeker?

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MrsDeVere · 06/09/2013 13:34

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giraffescantdanceallnight · 06/09/2013 13:34

Pixie there used to be a poster called pixieonaleaf and her ds had brittle asthma and was often in itu.

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