Partly needing to vent, but also really wonderng...
So, was putting away laundry this evening. I don't iron, usually leave clean clothes in separate basket for each family member to put away. To get them out of the way, since lots extra after summer holiday, I hung husband's shirts in his wardrobe. Well, what a mess it was!! NOt organised at all-everything hung completely randomly, many items on the wrong sorts of hangers (heavy wool jumpers on thin wire hangers, shirts on child-sized hangers, etc). There were clothes that haven't been worn in the 20 years we've been together. Many of the clothes are unwearable:motheaten, frayed, torn, not to mention hideously out of style. Some clothes I had recently bought him (with his approval, if not at his request) still had tags on, while yesterday he wore a too-small jumper (he said I had shrunk it) despite having a lovely, brand new one hanging there.
I tidied (didn't remove anything, though sorely tempted), so he could clearly see what he has, and mentioned that maybe sometime he could have a look and get rid of what he doesn't wear. His response was to get really cross, saying it was all fine as it was and I should instead spend my time cleaning up my piles of filing etc that are lying around the (shared) study. Fair enough I guess, but as I'm the one who does the laundry, and often buys his clothes (he's usually "too busy") it frustrates me. I'd love to tell him to just wash his own damn clothes, but it's not very efficient (we have a large capacity machine) and though he's offered to do all the washing, I know he would never separate, ie white vs dark, delicates vs. regular, or know what (ie bras, etc) to hang vs tumble dry.
I'm not at all OCD about these things, it really is a question of not wrecking good clothes (which I buy&wash) and not taking up space with useless crap. So, I guess my question is AIBU to want him to look after his clothes properly or let me do it?
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Whirliebirdie · 01/09/2013 22:54
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