Ok I am genuinely annoyed and might need some perspective on this.
Close friend has been complaining for a while that she misses spending time with me and dp (all get on well). Invite her round for dinner tonight, is agreed she will come rooms straight after work to save faffing. Finishes at 5, works 15 mins away from where we live.
At 5:45 I give her a call to see if she's been held up at work. No. She was on the phone to the bloke she was seeing, now meeting friend for a drink. Meant to text me but forgot.
I feel a bit narked at this point, not least because she was pleading poverty earlier on in the day. She eventually offers the explanation that other friend has split with her boyfriend and is quite upset. Ok fine. Friend then tries to get me to invite other friend round. I don't on the basis she can't eat the meal planned and it would be a bit awkward for my dp to meet her for the first time when she's upset.
I tell my friend we had planned to go for a drink before dinner but hadn't been able to due to her not actually letting us know when she would be arriving. She apologised and said she would be with us soon.
This was an hour ago. She is still not here.
AIBU to think she is being incredibly rude and to want to tell her to not bother coming round at all?
I appreciate other friend is upset. I would be less annoyed if friend had just said "look can we reschedule, she's in a bad way" than leaving me hanging.
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AIBU?
To tell friend not to bother actually.
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Alisvolatpropiis · 22/08/2013 19:29
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