I'm currently a SAHM to my 18 month old (by choice & happy with it).
Before this my main career was in managemt but a year before I fell pregnant I decided to take the plunge and pursue my lifelong career dream of becoming a teacher. To check that this was definitely what I wanted to do, I took a job as a classroom assistant, which I loved and the plan was to enrol to uni the next year. Then I fell pregnant and knew I wanted to stay at home with our little on (this is what my husband wanted too).
Now baby is 18 months. We want to continue with me being a SAHM until she starts nursery at least and are panning to try for another baby at somepoint in the next year or so.
Thinking about my career options, I don't want to be in the position in 5/6 years time where Me and my family are ready for me to return to employment but I'm not qualified so then potentially have to start a 4 year full time education program.
So I've been looking into open university for the undergraduate part, with a view to start in February.
My husband has always been aware of my hopes to become a teacher and has always gone along with my suggestions of what I plan to do.
Now that I'm looking into it seriously, with a view to enrol & apply for a tuition fees loan my husband has changed hs tune. On the grounds of not agreeing with taking on the debt of a tuition fee loan. I'd understand, but you don't start to repay until you're earning 21k so if that was the case then surely the repayments wouldn't be an issue? I can't decide if I'm being selfish or if he's being unreasonable?
My thoughts are that whilst doing the degree would men I owed the loan back, my earning potential as a qualified teacher is much better than if I went into a classroom assistant role so what's the problem?
Thoughts appreciated x
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BetterNotBitter · 20/08/2013 13:00
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