She has decided that she doesn't want to breastfeed any more, and I'm feeling really shit about it. Wondering if there is anything I can do/should have done differently, opinions welcome.
Background: almost exclusively BF her (as in a bottle maybe once a month) til 4.5 months, then slowly began weaning (she had terrible acid reflux). Still BFing but with the recent hot weather in London I gave her a few more bottles than usual to top up her fluids as I was paranoid she would be dehydrated and she didn't seem to be taking much from me. I would have to put my phone on my breast and let her play with it in order to keep her latched for any length of time. This seemed to be proved right when she gobbled up the formula, despite seeming uninterested in my boobs. Now I can barely get her to feed from me at all. I think it is because she can look around more easily when bottle feeding.
I want her to get her fluid and nutrients, but I'd rather they were from me than from formula. Short of starving her so she's desperate for milk (which obv I wouldn't do) what can I do? And is it my fault?
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To feel a bit rejected by my 8mo - should I have done something differently?
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DeweyDecibelle · 11/08/2013 22:10
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