Separated from husband 3 months ago, he is living elsewhere. He stayed over last night to do night feeds for baby to give me a break and also to get her used to not having me there overnight so he can have her for sleepovers with older kids.
In the space of 12 hours, he had commented on:
The bottle tops not being with the bottles - they were in fact where he left them as I don't use bottles as she is bf mostly with me.
The washing not being in the correct bins - historically, he used to do the washing, and we have 2 double bins with darks, whites, pinks and towels. I just shove everything whichever bin is to hand, when I'm washing I get everything out, sort it and wash. It's no biggie for me, as the kids inevitably put the wrong thing in the wrong bin and why stress?
Why there is a pile of washing on the floor in the utility room - simple, I haven't moved it yet!
After the third ridiculous nit picking comment I told him that this is my house now, I do things my way, it works just fine for me, and he can stfu and butt out.
Was I being unreasonable or is it really really rude to comment on stuff like that in someone else's home?
I don't interfere in the way he runs his house, it works for him, kids are clean clothed and fed when they visit, that's good enough for me. Should he not afford me the same respect?
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Twattybollocks · 11/08/2013 09:08
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