Dd is 5. She's having to visit the dentist every 3 months to have her teeth varnished as she has cavities. The dentist said she will have to drill her teethif the ccavities get worse and that she must have minimal sugar if this is to be avoided. She doesn't have much sugar with me anyway but we've cut back where we can - ie ice lollies instead of ice creams, salad instead of fruit etc. She has fortnightly contact with her father and a bit extra in the holidays. He doesn't brush her teeth or encourage her to do so(she does it off her own back to look after her teeth though as she knows about the cavities but doesn't do a great job; when she returns the first toothpaste spit is yellow and her breath smells.)
Today when he collected her I spoke to him about what the dentist said and asked him to reduce her sugar intake there. Last time she was there she had: 2 choc cereal bars plus grapes and strawberries dipped in choc spread for breakfast, 2 milkshakes, cake with lunch, chocolate for snack, lemonade, ice cream, ccheesecake - all before she returned on the Sunday at 3pm. He started badgering her about eating more veg instead of fruit but said he won't cut back on 'treats' as he 'likes to relax and treat her at the weekends/in the holidays.' dd already hates the dentist and IMO will be terrified forever if she hasto have her teeth drilled. It is me that has to take her - he doesn't get involved in anything responsible - so me that will have to persuade etc if he continues to give her so much sugar and also not brush her teeth. AIBU to ask him to take a little responsibility and brush her teeth/cut back on treats?
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wearyandweepy · 03/08/2013 13:20
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