I found out that my darling little Sticky Cat was killed by a car yesterday. He was one of two brothers and I will go as far to admit I am a bit of a crazy cat lady when it came to my boys. I've had them since the day they were born and they genuinely are part of my little family and Sticky was such a character and would follow us to the shops, wait outside then walk back with us. He was always up for a cuddle and a fuss.
Since I found yesterday evening I've been crying. I know I would expect to be upset but it honestly feels like the most heart wrenching pain ever. I can feel it physically on my chest. Iawake from 3 in the morning as all I can think of is how sad his brother seems, always looking for him and crying and the vet saying we shouldn't see him because he was in such a bad state. He was so lovely and he didn't deserve to go so horribly, even though the vet said it would have been quick, I keep thinking of him just left on the road in pain and can't seem to get myself to be more rational.
I feel so stupid for being so upset and feel like I need to just get on with it but everything I do reminds me I'll never see my two boys together again. Even hanging the washing out I cried because I saw a peg he was chewing on the other day.
Part of me is wondering if being 21 weeks pregnant is making me perhaps more sensitive to it all and want to know if anyone has any advice for feeling better or at least functioning basically? I was so looking forward to having my family all complete, all my boys and me. I had my scan yesterday morning and was so happy and know I should focus on the fact my baby is healthy but I just can't think of anything but Sticks.
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everythinghippie29 · 24/07/2013 15:32
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