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AIBU?

OH and his holiday with his brother

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SaveWaterDrinkMalibu · 12/07/2013 19:40

OH has just announced that he is going away with his twat of a brother in August for a week.

Last time he went away with his brother he ended up being arrested on the first night, 'falling'' in the sea at night & cheating on me. It all happened because of his brother.

Am I being unreasonable to put my foot down and tell him not to go? They are going back to the same place

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Purplehonesty · 12/07/2013 19:42

His brother made him cheat on you?

SaveWaterDrinkMalibu · 12/07/2013 19:43

His brother spiked his drink, and then locked him in a room with some girl.

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DeepRedBetty · 12/07/2013 19:44

You can ask him to think hard before he goes. But his brother can't make him be a complete twunt when he drinks too much.

Fragglewump · 12/07/2013 19:45

Did his brother pump up his cock and slip in inside her?? Not sure you're fuming at the right person!?!

pictish · 12/07/2013 19:45

His brother spiked his drink and locked him in a rim with some girl??

I have heard some shite in my life but as excuses go, that's a doozy!

You keep right on blaming his brother OP. Good luck with that.

As regards the holiday - yanbu. He's a cheat and a thug.

LoveWine · 12/07/2013 19:45

Interesting...And did he force him to have sex with her??

pictish · 12/07/2013 19:45

*room

Lj8893 · 12/07/2013 19:46

I'm sorry but I think that sounds like a big excuse for cheating on you, and you have fell for it big time.

DeepRedBetty · 12/07/2013 19:46

x posted.

But, if he genuinely regrets that whole incident he wouldn't be placing himself at risk of one of his brother's funny ha ha little pranks again would he?

SaveWaterDrinkMalibu · 12/07/2013 19:48

Having seen oh brother spike his friend & lock them in a room with a girl, I can pretty much say that's probably what happened

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WilsonFrickett · 12/07/2013 19:49

IF that's what happened then of course he wouldn't want to go away with his brother again, would he?

Sorry OP but nah. Either he's feeding you a crock of shit, or he's telling the truth but isn't too bothered about the same sort of thing happening again.

Madamecastafiore · 12/07/2013 19:50

What did he spoke him with speed and a double dose of Viagra??

You are being played young lady.

Most drugs render you impotent that are used for spiking.

phantomnamechanger · 12/07/2013 19:50

how could he, if he respects you and your sexual & emotional health, even consider going away with that idiot brother who thinks that sort of thing is a laugh. if the story is true of course.

even if he had learned a lesson and just wanted some time with his brother to bond, he must know how insecure and worried you would be feeling while he was away and for that reason alone should not even suggest going

ENormaSnob · 12/07/2013 19:50

Get some self respect and ditch the fucker.

Stop kidding yourself that this is all the brothers fault.

Lj8893 · 12/07/2013 19:50

You say probably what happened. So you don't actually know for sure?

I'm sorry but I think they both sound like twats and them going on a holiday together is the very least of your worries

FairyThunderthighs · 12/07/2013 19:51

So if you were pissed and locked in room you'd think "oh well I'm going to HAVE to have sex with him"?! The brother sounds like a dickhead yes, but your OH isn't totally blameless. Wouldn't trust either of them as far as I could throw them.

pictish · 12/07/2013 19:52

Even so....if your OH knows you know about that, it gives him a perfect get out clause doesn't it? It wasn't me, honest...it was bruv.
Spiking someone and locking them in a room with a member of the opposite sex does not automatically equal unavoidable sex!!

Stop lapping it up OP.

FairyThunderthighs · 12/07/2013 19:52

Sorry, should have said "pissed and locked in a room with a bloke who wasn't your OH"

Lj8893 · 12/07/2013 19:54

So was the girl also spiked? Because I can't imagine any sane unspiked girl having sex with some off their face spiked drugged up bloke?

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pictish · 12/07/2013 19:55

Good point LJ

pictish · 12/07/2013 19:56

Yes...did the big bad brother spike both of them? Your OH and the girl?

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MissStrawberry · 12/07/2013 19:56

You have been played well and truly.

pictish · 12/07/2013 19:56

And not even very well.

BegoniaBampot · 12/07/2013 19:57

Is that your normal night out? Watching friends or family spike people's drinks and lock them in rooms with people? Whatever floats your boat, I'm obviously too reserved and prudish for you lot.

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