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To not want delivery driver in my house?

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Laurier88 Mon 08-Jul-13 10:48:43

Last week I came home from work to find a MyHermes card through the door saying my parcel had been left at the back door - fine, I'd left the back gate unlocked as my dad was meant to be coming round to mow my lawn (yes I'm that lazy!). Went into the kitchen & the parcel was on the worktop, and when I went to open the back door it was unlocked so presumed my dad had brought the parcel in and forgotten to lock it.

Turns out my dad hadn't been round, I must have forgotten to lock the back door (entirely my fault) and the delivery driver has come round the back of the house, tried the back door and found it unlocked, entered the house and left the parcel on the kitchen counter.

There is no way they could have thought someone was in - we were all out, cars gone etc. I have emailed MyHermes saying how cross I was that this has happened, and have received a snotty email back saying how their drivers are so good they go above and beyond to ensure parcels are left in a safe place, and how lucky I am it was one of their trustworthy drivers and not a thief that came in the house!

Yes, I know it's my fault for forgetting to lock the back door, but I'm quite shocked that a delivery driver would go into someone's back garden then try their back door, and enter the house when finding it unlocked.

Please be brutally honest - I am quite cross, and haven't dared tell DH as I know he would be fuming - aibu?

GoOnThenAgain Thu 07-Dec-17 16:18:47

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Flower1333 Thu 07-Dec-17 16:16:55

I think you should be grateful At least he put the parcel in a safe place

mathbox Wed 06-Dec-17 12:48:46

No one has the right to walk in your house !!! i cant understand why people think its ok for the postie/delivery guy to do this so you get your parcel this has recently happened to me, my small dog could have been let out on to a main road, my daughter in law was in bed ill i had just popped to a neighbour i was ill in bed the previous week i could have been walking around my home undressed , i dont think i should have to sit locked in my house because a delivery is being made as for those that say at least you got your parcel what if the delivery guy had been a predator of some kind ?
NO-ONE has the right to walk in your home even if it is unlocked !

Laurier88 Tue 09-Jul-13 11:58:14

To the poster who asked - it was glycerine for the pigs skin. Which my dad reckons is used in bombs, and his theory is the MyHermes man is working for the police and therefore broke in to see if I was making a bomb in the kitchen! Maybe not, dad hmm

MarmaladeTwatkins Tue 09-Jul-13 01:02:43

Did he shit on yer doilies?

revealall Mon 08-Jul-13 23:53:20

Delivery driver coming in wouldn't worry me - doing his job and probably has lots of others to do that day and doesn't want to have to come back. Lots of people don't lock their doors and he doesn't give a shit about me and my life.

I hate it when people I know come in when I'm not there. They know me and therefore can be much more judgmental (or a bit nosey in one friends case).

Fandan Mon 08-Jul-13 23:43:53

The my Hermes delivery women who comes to mine doesn't even bother to knock my door, she just opens it and places the parcel behind my front door.
When you go in my front door there is a small vestibule and then a further internal door, that I mainly try to keep closed as we have a rather large German shepherd who doesn't take kindly to people chapping my door, I dread to think what would happen if she done this when the internal door was left open

manticlimactic Mon 08-Jul-13 23:17:31

Somehow a MyHermes driver managed to get a parcel in my shed. I thought I'd locked it but I hadn't put the padlock on properly. Why he didn't use the catflap like he normally did is beyond me.

BinarySolo Mon 08-Jul-13 21:38:36

What was in the parcel, op?

<misses point of thread>
<and is nosy>

WhyMeWhyNot Mon 08-Jul-13 20:32:53

My parcels always get thrown into my neighbours garden. I've complained to no avail. I can look out my upstairs window and watch my parcels go through all manner of weather before the neighbours are around.

Plomino Mon 08-Jul-13 20:31:42

Our local delivery driver did it once . Unfortunately he disturbed the sleeping and somewhat territorial greyhound , who decided not to let him back out of the house , and stood between him and the front door wagging his tail and just daring him to run for the exit .

Good thing I was only round the corner , and got home minutes of him arriving . He's not tried to come in again since , but leaves stuff in the boot of the car ever since .

HeffalumpTheFlump Mon 08-Jul-13 20:26:58

But the door wasn't left open, it was unlocked. So to find out if it was unlocked he would have to try and open it. I seriously don't see why this is acceptable. Why would he do this when no one was in and there was evidently a 'safe place' by the back door to leave the parcel?

As hairyworm says, an unlocked door does not constitute an invitation. If it did, anyone who doesn't lock their front door when they are in is automatically inviting anyone in off the street. That surely isn't right?

HairyWorm Mon 08-Jul-13 20:14:38

Yeah, the door should have been locked but it is not OK to enter someone's property uninvited. I don't believe an unlocked door constitutes an invitation.

One thing that occurred to me is that I don't always answer the door. i.e. if I'm busy, half dressed, on a phone call or I've seen the charity/religious door knockers prowling. The last thing I want is someone thinking it's OK to try the door anyway. If I've not answered it's because I don't want to see/speak to the person on the other side.

I get from this thread that this is more acceptable in the country but still..... I'm not comfortable with a stranger thinking it's OK to try the door and enter your house.

phantomnamechanger Mon 08-Jul-13 20:14:05

If the door is open, what better "safe place" than inside the house?

actually I would say the opposite is true - driver should have taken parcel away with him, because leaving it in the UNLOCKED house, is not safe at all - it could get nicked by the next random that walks in, then it really is his word against the OPs about whether it was delivered

(lock the door next time OP, next time you may not be so lucky)

Scruffey Mon 08-Jul-13 20:04:19

The driver tried to help you
It was your fault for leaving both your gate and door unlocked
Can't believe you complained! Driver probably though it was left open for him!
In your shoes, I would have thought, silly me for leaving everything unlocked, lucky I didn't get burgled and bonus I got my parcel even though I was out.


Trills Mon 08-Jul-13 20:00:09

I agree with PhallicGiraffe - the delivery drivers are supposed to try to find a safe place.

If the door is open, what better "safe place" than inside the house?

Better that than making no attempt to look for a safe place to leave it and leaving the "come to our depot 50 miles away" card, or throwing a package over a fence without and thought as to whether it will survive the landing.

weakestlink Mon 08-Jul-13 19:55:03

YABU - he probably thought you had left the back door open for him to leave the parcel!
We live in the countryside and if I know I am expecting a delivery but have to pop out I always leave the door open.

RevoltingPeasant Mon 08-Jul-13 19:50:13

Heffa exactly. Who the jeff goes around trying people's doors once it's clear they're out?!

Well, I definitely won't be using Hermes!

Although I did recently forget to lock our front door for a whole day, 7-7 blush luckily we have nothing worth stealing!

HeffalumpTheFlump Mon 08-Jul-13 19:25:40

I actually don't agree that it comes down to the op leaving the door unlocked. I think it comes down to the driver trying the door. I cant understand why it is acceptable for him to do this at all. Whether the door was locked or unlocked, I don't think the driver should have been trying to gain entry to the house. So YANBU, I would be very cross if this happened and would not be happy with Hermes' response either.

Earthworms Mon 08-Jul-13 18:51:44

I think I'd warn Hermes that their policy is leaving drivers open to all sorts of potential issues. Pug bites, pig bites or false accusations.

PhallicGiraffe Mon 08-Jul-13 18:43:42

This is ultimately your fault for leaving the door open. The driver was just making sure the package was in a safe place, doing his job properly. He's not a thief, he is working, and just wants to complete his job. Surely if he wanted to nick something, he would just take your parcel?
Just get over yourself, and lock your door...

Laurier88 Mon 08-Jul-13 17:31:00

Thanks everyone - I wasn't trying to get the driver into trouble, was just a bit shocked. I know it wasn't DH as he works away, and checked with family/neighbours before contacting MyHermes.

Yes, I was definitely at fault for being dim enough to go out and leave a door unlocked! I suppose it could have been worse, I have a rather nasty little pug and two very territorial potbellied pigs who were loose in the house - might have come home to find I was being sued for them attacking the driver!

starfishmummy Mon 08-Jul-13 17:24:20

Mil is always going on about people leaving stuff in her tiny hall or even just inside the living room but she doesn't ever lock the front door!

Even though she has been bulged by someone who walked through the door and went straight upstairs while she was in the garden. Sigh.

YesIamYourSisterInLaw Mon 08-Jul-13 16:41:02

*What would happen if the customer said there was some money on the kitchen table which has now gone?

What would happen if the customer said her underwear had been taken out of the washing basket?*

The same thing that would happen if the customer had been robbed- nothing.
You made a mistake op, we've all done it. Just think of this a lucky wake up call, it could have been worse

fedupofnamechanging Mon 08-Jul-13 16:40:13

I think it's nice to see a company defending its staff rather than feeding them to the wolves when a customer has an unreasonable complaint.

I think it's probably instinctive to try a back door if you knock and no one answers or maybe you left it ajar. You are lucky you weren't burgled, so stop being whingey and he grateful your parcel was delivered safely and nothing bad happened.

Poor driver - does you a good turn and gets bitched about!

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