My dts (2.10) is due to start 'school' (just mornings) in september. The school insists on the little ones being potty trained, which he is not really as things stand. His twin is. At home, i have him in pants, strongly encourage him to use the loo and give out rewards for any successes.
Nursery refuse to do anything. They have him in nappies and take him to the loo every few hours. They report back he won't go, but i presume thats because he's used his nappy ten minutes before? They say they've had plenty of kids decide to use the potty two days before school starts, and i shouldn't make an issue of it, but I don't get what will change if they do nothing whatsoever to make that happen? He is in nursery two days a week. I am very concerned this could be holding him back.
My dm sees her own 'tricky' personality in dts and is extremely protective of him. She ALSO says i shouldnt push him, and should reserve a nursery place for him come september. She has him one day a week and has trouble keeping him dry, i suspect because she isn't as assertive as I am in taking him to the loo. I fear this is holding him back too.
What to do? Should i speak to nursery? Should i just wait it out? My big worry is that he won't start school (which is wonderful, much more age appropriate and structured than nursery with games, activities, crafts, trips etc) with his twin. I dont want the discrepancy that already exists between them (he is wild, twin is not) to widen. And i dont want him to see his twin starting school without him. Wont that affect his self-esteem?
So mumsnet jury, am i being unreasonable to expect nursery to be more proactive, am i being unreasonable to consider 'pushing' him more to meet the school deadline? Should i keep him at hime and blitz for a while? What would you do?
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