i need help here because i really dont think im asking too much. DH on the otherhand thinks im the one in the wrong.
example... it all starts with DH saying hes 'going out for tea after work' with workmates. this is fine, lovely even. not a problem. i know he works hard. he deserves to chill with his mates. then a day or so before the 'event' it becomes 'going for a curry and a few drinks' when probed further i get 'i dunno, not sure if im staying out. ill just come home'.
then by the time the night out in question arrives i dont hear anything about it and it becomes a 'full night out with the lads, change of clothess taken into work and everything'...
example.. DH says hes having a night out for his birthday with workmates.. few days later night out becomes night away.. bit further on and its a weekend going walking/boozing.. when probed for further info i get 'dunno/not sure' answers.. nothing specific. yet to others hes telling them that they have b&b booked, pub crawl planned etc.
AIBU to ask DH that if hes planning a night out or whatever to just tell me that from the start rather than feed me aload of bullshit all week?? im happy for him to go out and do whatever whenever all i ask is that he keeps me in the loop. i am his DW aand them one at home with our 2DC (3yrs & 8ms) afterall.
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AIBU?
To ask DH to just tell me the truth from the start.
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celebmum · 27/06/2013 22:28
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