Please be nice to me, I'm already feeling
Friends A, B and I are really good friends from uni. They were bridesmaids at my wedding. I live 30mins bus ride away from A, B lives 2hrs away. So A and I meet up every 3/4 weeks and she's usually very reliable and I've never had 'beef' with her before.
A few weeks ago A said she wanted to meet up with me on a Saturday. I was busy in the day but it was something she could join in with and we thought it would be nice if we invited B along to watch eurovision with us in the evening. So we asked B but she's really busy so couldn't come. I assumed the plans still stood for A and I.
So then a few days before we were due to meet up I asked her what the details were, she couldn't come now because her new boyf was taking her out early for a day trip on the Sunday. I said they could both come and stay at mine if they wanted. They didn't want. Obviously I thought the plans were more set in stone than she did.
So eurovision comes and goes, later that week A texts and says we must meet up, she hasn't seen me in ages. I ignored the text because I was still a bit hurt but thought Iwbu so didn't want to be rude.
Today I recieved another text from her. 'Are you free tomorrow morning?'. I sensed that maybe some other plans had fallen through as she's usually more organised. I said 'I'm free between 9 and 11 but I doubt that's very useful to you' (she's not an early riser). She replied and said 'No, but we haven't spoken in ages, how about we have a phone call in that slot?'. I have a toddling baby so a long phone call at that time isn't really going to work if she actually wants a heart to heart (she hasn't got any kids so might not realise).
Having written all that down it does seem a bit trivial but I just feel that if she so desperately wants to see me she'll ring me before half term and book a date with me or get out of bed to see me.
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Would you be pissed off if your friend did this?
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Sixparrotspullingupcarrots · 30/05/2013 19:11
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