My sister is visiting for a few days. Today is her last day and she has...
Stayed home with her feet up to read her book while I drag my 2 year old round the supermarket, buying stuff for a dinner she requested
Taken a 2 hour afternoon nap, while I entertain both the children alone
Decided to go shopping on her own because she 'needs a break', despite the fact that I have kept my older child home from nursery this afternoon so he could spend some extra time with her. So now I am stuck at home entertaining two because it is peeing down outside.
She lives very comfortably with her partner, has no children, and is very used to doing what she wants, when she wants it. And she's making it clear she'd rather be alone with her book than spend time with her nephews - despite the fact that she only see them maybe 3 times a year, and they are her only nephews. And they totally adore her! My 5 year old is confused that he's been allowed to stay home to spend time with his aunt - but she's either been asleep or out for most of the afternoon.
I know she's not used to the pace set by two active boys. And I know that part of my grumpiness is because I personally would love to nap / read / go out on my own - but I can't because I have one (now two) children to look after! I didn't expect her to babysit but I did hope she'd enjoy spending some time with me and the boys together. To be fair, we did have a busy day yesterday doing stuff together, but it seems to have wiped her out!
She leaves tomorrow and I won't rush to invite her back TBH. When my parents come to visit, they take the boys out so that I can have a break. When she visits, I am taking them out so that she can have a break!
AIBU or should I cut her some slack?
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justwondering72 · 28/05/2013 14:51
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