i probably am BU but my DH has gone on a fancy dress night out for a friends birthday, before he left he told me he would be home by 1am. All fine, not got a problem with that at all.
Background -: I'm unwell at the minute and still feeling crappy, we are doing up our new house (less than 2 weeks until we move, still also need to pack up here) tomorrow he needs to be in a fit state to use machinery in order to progress with the renovations. Due to above mentioned move money is tight. I can't lock the door up properly as he wont be able to get in if i do, cant leave it open as we have had problems with one of our DC being able to open the basic locks and sneaking downstairs and out the door, so basically i cant go to bed until he is in.
Situation -: Have now received a couple of texts from him telling me one of the females in the group is dressed 'very kinkily' and that the outfit he is wearing is apparently a fantasy of hers. This is the same female he has admitted finding attractive and asked with 'no pressure' if i would consider a threesome with. Also he changed his mind about what time he was coming home, didn't bother to mention it until after the last train left decided to get a taxi home instead (which we cant really afford especially on top of his costume hire, drinks for the night and transport there.)
Maybe i am BU, but i tired, feel crap, and am stuck waiting up until he comes home which he cant give me an estimated time for. I cant even be extreme and sod him and lock him out as due to my disabilities i need him to be here for the children in the morning before my medication kicks in. Though if he is out till all hours and drinking god knows how much use he is actually going to be, both with the kids and doing the work that NEEDS to be done tomorrow. Sorry for the rant.
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Erimentha · 28/05/2013 00:47
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