I'm really hurt and a bit worried. My friend (and she is normally a good friend not a cruel or vindictive one, hence me asking the MN jury) said she thinks my DDs are too skinny and I don't feed them enough.
The background...
My DDs all do between 2 and 4 hours of dance or gymnastics on 4 weeknights, plus another 3 hours dance on a Saturday morning. This is their choice - they love it, and I'm happy to support it as long as the school work is done.
Generally I pick them up from school (DD4) or the bus stop (elder 3) between 4 and 4.30. They then have training from 5 until 8ish.
My friend commented that my girls are 'too skinny' and she isn't surprised given that I only feed them one evening meal despite all the activity. We lift share to ballet, so she knows what my DDs get. She feeds her DD twice - a 'packed tea' of sandwiches, crisps etc and the a proper hot dinner after dance.
I've always thought that a light snack was more than enough and any more would probably make them a bit sick when dancing or tumbling. If my DDs ever ask for food or mention they are hungry then of course they are offered something, but they rarely say they are hungry.
They all eat cereal, juice and chopped banana in the morning before school except DD2 who claims it makes her sick to eat early. She takes a cereal bar/belvita biscuit and a piece of fruit on the bus, which isn't great but she's 14 and it's a battle I'm tired of.
They have school dinners, so I'm never 100% what they have eaten but its usually sandwiches, soup, quiches etc from what they say. They always take a bottle of water and a piece of fruit in their bags and a sugary snack (kitkat, flapjack, twix type thing).
In the car they always have a banana or an apple and a carton of juice or chocolate milk. They take water with them.
After dance or gym they have a good tea - roast chicken and veg, grilled fish and salad, pasta and sauce, lasagne, chilli, casseroles, chicken with rice etc etc.
They get treats at least once a week - pizza, ice cream, cake etc but its not a regular thing. They rarely say they're hungry, and both DD2 and to a lesser extent DD3 are reluctant eaters at the best of times.
Surely this is enough? They are skinny things, but that's how they've always been, they're small in height too. Both my family and DH's have always been short and skinny.
So, after a long post, my question is, do I need to feed them more?! If so, what?
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AIBU?
AIBU to think my DDs don't need 2 dinners, even if they do extra curricular activities?
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GraduallyGoingInsane · 27/05/2013 14:32
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