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to not understand why anyone would not wear a car seatbelt?

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kim147 Sun 26-May-13 17:16:24

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Thisvehicleisreversing Mon 27-May-13 15:35:11

A friend of mine is possibly the most dangerous driver ever.

She drives a huge car because small ones 'don't feel right' although she only uses it for school and supermarket run.

She needs glasses but won't wear them when driving confused

She never wears her seatbelt and thinks because she's a 'safe' driver she'll be fine.

When her DD was little she'd put her in the car seat with the strap really loose and only over her lap, not over the shoulders. I pointed out how dangerous it was but she just said "I'm a careful driver and anyway I don't pick up enough speed to be dangerous" Never mind that other drivers might be the danger. hmm

I won't go in her car.

TWinklyLittleStar Mon 27-May-13 15:20:16

birds I was in the back of a stationary car as a child, old car with no belts fitted. We were hit by another car and if I had a seatbelt on I wouldn't have needed my skull stapled back together.

I have seen the aftermath of a number of crashes where it almost boggles belief that nobody was hurt. All those uninjured, lucky people were wearing their belt.

ComposHat Mon 27-May-13 14:58:56

My FIL has his seat belt buckle plugged in but cut through the strap to stop the incessant beeping when he is not strapped in

In which case his car will fail its next MOT straight away and won't get another MOT until the seatbelt is replaced.

ComposHat Mon 27-May-13 14:55:07

Given the risk it poses to other people, I'd like to see seatbelt law enforced more rigorously, treating it akin to speeding or drink driving. I can see no reason why someone who shows utter disregard for other people's safety, by not wearing a seatbelt shouldn't be subject to a driving ban.

saintmerryweather Mon 27-May-13 14:51:55

there just isnt a good reason not to wear one

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Mon 27-May-13 14:18:11

EduCated...yy. That is the advert that makes me wear my seatbelt with others in the car. Everytime. I'll never wear it when I'm alone.

BabyLabyrinth Mon 27-May-13 14:09:39

My FIL has his seat belt buckle plugged in but cut through the strap to stop the incessant beeping when he is not strapped in. He is also of the ilk that says no one can tell him what to do in his own car. Unfortunately he has brainwashed MIL to think the same.

My DD and any other future DC will never travel in their car, nor will I drive PIL anywhere. Selfish idiots. FIL does a lot of long journeys alone for work, and I dread the day we will get that phone call. It's not fair on DH or the rest of the family.

EduCated Mon 27-May-13 14:08:57

Birds, with all due respect, that is bollocks. I don't know how anyone who has seen this can ink it ok to not wear a seatbelt in the back.

IneedAsockamnesty Mon 27-May-13 13:50:26

Birds, you do realise that in the back of a car the danger is not so much to you but to the people in the front?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Mon 27-May-13 13:39:25

Deafleopard... I think if you are THAT injured, it really won't matter whether you were wearing the belt or not and the car will be 'stopped' anyway as it will be the impact that caused the injury in the first place.

DeafLeopard Mon 27-May-13 13:34:39

Our drive is awkward to get off, so I don't wear my seatbelt to reverse off, but then put it on before moving off.

Those who don't wear a belt, if your car gets hit by someone else, and you get injured, you may not be able to control it to bring it to a stop.

Birdsgottafly Mon 27-May-13 13:32:11

I wear a seat belt in the back depending on the journey. If it is a short drive and unlikely that anyone can drive over 30 MPH (we are infested by lights and speed bumps) then i don't, the drive from my local supermarkets rarely goes over 20 MPH.

Children should always be strapped in, but i do think that adults should have the right to choose, when sat in the back, the agreement should come from the person sitting in front as well.

I don't agree with the continual beeping when you take your belt off, sometimes it is safe to do so, to take your coat off, or something and i think that the beeping can be distracting for the driver.

Seatbelts do save lives and stop injuries, but there are circumstances were they can be undone, and no harm is going to come to the passenger (yes i have had tires blow out).

IneedAsockamnesty Mon 27-May-13 13:18:32

I have to find him before he can become an ex husband grin

Fakebook Mon 27-May-13 10:27:24

Why wouldn't anyone wear a seatbelt? I'm shocked people wouldn't wear one! Whenever I've seen anyone get in a car, first thing they do is put their seatbelt on. I would feel naked without mine on.

Bogeyface Mon 27-May-13 10:23:10

I hope he is now your ex husband?! What an asshole!

saintmerryweather Mon 27-May-13 10:19:24

i tried to turn my car round in our drive without my seatbelt on and i couldnt cope, it really didnt feel right! i dont carry any passengers in my car without their seatbelts being done up. my mum had an accident where she wasnt wearing one (car didnt have em), she went from the rear passenger side seat through the windscreen, taking the headrest with her

IneedAsockamnesty Mon 27-May-13 10:15:01

My estranged husband.

dancingwithmyselfandthecat Mon 27-May-13 10:05:27

Ginger, I am also fairly short. I have a cushion strapped to the car seat, and I've also put a cushion around the seatbelt at the point it cuts my neck. It really sucks that they don't think about short people!

Bogeyface Mon 27-May-13 09:58:41

wow Sock who was he?

TeWiSavesTheDay Mon 27-May-13 09:18:58

shock wow. What a horrible experience.

IneedAsockamnesty Mon 27-May-13 09:11:17


No the police turned up and arrested him,by that point he was so incandescent with rage at being asked to belt up he punched the car window and smashed it.

RichManPoorManBeggarmanThief Mon 27-May-13 08:18:47

My old boss doesnt wear a seatbelt because once he was driving down a road and a stag ran in front of him, and came through the windscreen. He managed to duck sideways as not restrained by seatbelt and so didnt get spiked by the antlers. Therefore he thinks fate is telling him not to wear a seatbelt.

ExcuseTypos Mon 27-May-13 08:11:01

To answer your question OP, it's because they are stupid.

I don't start my car until all seat belts are done up.

GingerBlondecat Mon 27-May-13 08:10:50

ThisWayForCrazy Darling, I love you. Mwah <3


GingerBlondecat Mon 27-May-13 08:08:21

Next car Im going to check for
1. The adjustable seatbelt
2. A headrest that works with long hair aka wearing a bun without having to hold my head at an odd angle.
3. drives itself lol, well why not, they now make cars that can park themselves


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