So X is an old school friend and we used to be really close. Now we live a few hours apart so don't get to see much of each other but when we do it's like old times as we know each other so well.
The thing is, she is really bad at keeping in touch. If I send her 3 texts she won't reply. Anyone else and I would think they don't want to be my friend but I know that's just her way.
The other day she rang me and we had a good chat for 20 mins until we got cut off for some reason. I couldn't call her back as I had used all my mins and it is really expensive to go over (on a budget at the mo). So I text her explaining and asked her to call back. Nothing. Couple of hours later sent another text. No reply. That was last week and have heard nothing. She could easily have emailed if her phone had broken or something.
She has always been like this, very passive and willing to let others do the running and sort everything out. I feel now that its just verging on rude and I resent being ignored most of the time. This latest thing has made me wonder whether I should keep accepting that I do all the running or call it a day.
Sorry, not exactly a groundbreaking issue but would like to know what others think....
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KatherineLacey · 25/05/2013 21:48
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