Because now he's not talking to me and Im not sure what to do.
Ok, gay male bff has been my very best friend for the last 15 years.
Meets have been a little sparce since baby 2 came along because of difficulties since then. He is 2 now.
Things have calmed down a little so text and arranged to see him in his town, in a pub near to where he lived. (When things got tough my end, he'd come to mine ever few months), we live about 30 mins drive from one another.
Ok, so I arrange with him last week to meet this afternoon. I tell DP that the kids miss XXXX so will take them with me, be a day out. DP arranges work for the afternoon.
Come the morning, I tell my eldest, we're going on a train, we're going to Brighton, we're seeing, xxxx.
He's beside himself excited and so am I.
I get a text from bff at 11am saying "Sorry, I cant make today, I went out last night, dont know where I was, where I went, but I need to go back go bed, dont hate me!"
I had a knee jerk reaction reply which said
"Are you fucking kidding me? Thanks a fucking bunch."
His reply was "Wow. Really? Thats your reply?"
I said "Yes thats my reply. It takes me weeks and weeks to get any freedom, to get out, to have any kind if life whatsoever, and when I finally do, you stitch me up because you've had one to many jars last night? Thanks so much."
He doest reply.
I text back at midday "Ok Im sorry for the outburst, but me and the kds were looking forward to the meet and xxxx is gutted because he though he was seeing you (ds1) and now we have broken plans. But never mind, onwards and upwards. X"
Silence.
I text at 6.30pm and said "silence? Really! Thats you response?" And ive had nothing.
Yes yes yes its childish, pointing it out wont help me.
Have I fucked this up? Am I allowed to be angry? Or not? Wwyd?
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To have got so suddenly cross with my bff?
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KissMyShinyMetalAss · 25/05/2013 19:39
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