let me start this by saying my DS's teachers are all wonderful, they deserve loads of appreciation and recognition.
However...
One of the school mums is organising a collection for the teachers, she did the same thing at Christmas, sent us all an email requesting a fixed amount from each parent. (it is quite a lot of money to me, and to some of the other parents in DS's class)
3/4 will go to the teacher who is there 4 days a week, 1/4 will go to the teacher who is there 1 day a week, and a 1/4 will go to the ta who is there 5 days a week.
i think it is realky unfair/unkind to split it up that way, and to ask for a fixed amount from each family. At Christmas the card with the present was only from the children that contributed.
A) am I really unresonable and should just mind my own business and get my own token gift (even though this could go on for years, and it makes me feel really mean for not contributing)
B) send an email or talk to the Mum organising it pointing out that asking for fixed donations is excluding several families, or worse pressuring them to pay what they can't afford? And that I think the breakdown of gifts is actually quite mean, especially to the TA who is there most of all!
C) organise a 'pitiful and poor' collection where people can contribute what they want, and get each teacher/ta a similiar value gift i.e. A nice plant for their garden, bottle of wine and chocolates.
Go on MN, tell me how unreasonable I am
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turnipsoup · 20/05/2013 16:56
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