DH tells me that when he was thirteen and still in school his parents took some of his wages from his part time job (helping out on a milk round. This was the early 80s.) They actually took over half of it. DH says they didn't need the money at the time but it was their expectation that as a wage earner he contributed to household expenses.
I was aghast at this. My parents never took any of my earnings from my Saturday and evening work I did whilst I was still at school. This was my money to spend or save as I wanted.
I said that I would not expect our DC to pay keep if they do
any part time work while at school. He doesn't see what's wrong with it.
So who IBU here. Our DC are only 4 and 2 do the reality of this discussion is some way off for us yet.
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AIBU or is DH about charging your children "digs"
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Whowouldfardelsbear · 15/05/2013 11:17
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